Wednesday, August 15, 2012

Striving For Progress, Not Perfection

Normally I am quite an optimistic person. 

"Oh hey Britt, you left your windows down in the rain!" Cool! I always liked playing with water. "Yeah, uh, Britt, your unsaved essay sort of just got lost... forever." Eh, I'll rewrite it... After all, I love writing and the original essay wasn't that great anyways!

You see what I mean?

Except, tomorrow I go back to school. BLEH. I still feel as if I haven't really "lived up" my summer yet and want more time. But just because you want "more time" doesn't mean life is just going to hand you it. So suck it up buttercup.

I'm all over the board today. OH BOY. Here's a cool picture I recently found:


Oh man is this true or what? It's a good reminder to myself when I beat myself up for someone doing something better than me, whether that's lifting heavier in the weight room or writing a better piece than myself. I am naturally a very competitive person so I always have to go above and beyond. 

Sometimes I beat myself up because I can't squat a certain weight, or something similar like that. But then I look at the people who can squat heavy. They pretty much always prove to be experienced athletes who have developed that ability by hard work and practice over the years. Going back up to the above quote, they probably started out exactly where I did. I just have to dig into my patience to gradually increase the weight (on any exercise, not just squats). 

That's my problem. I am extremely impatient. I can't sit still for more than five minutes. I am super antsy and I like to get stuff DONE. Typical Type A personality I am over here. No shame. But sometimes I need to remember to just breathe. I want to do this, I need to do that. No Britt, you just need to relax and take it step by step. Sure, I desperately wish that I could just attack every heavy weight in the weight room, but I can't. I have to build up the strength, just like everybody else.

I am not perfect and my mind doesn't like that. But oh well. Too freaking bad. Nothing is handed to you in life without a little hard work, as my mother always told me. And it's true! I just wish my ambitious brain could understand this. ;) I am striving for progress, not perfection.

Anyways, after that little tangent, I just have to say that I may not be able to blog everyday now that school is starting. Most likely it will be every other day so don't miss me too much. ;) I love writing and blogging far too much to completely forget about it! 

Lastly, being the big Lord of the Rings fan that I am, I leave you with THIS masterpiece that I hope makes you chuckle as it did me. Just trying to inject a little bit of sunshine into everyone's life. :)

(discovered on Pinterest)

If you don't understand this picture, go watch the movie Mean Girls. ;)

Have a great Wednesday everyone!

Questions: Are you like me in that you just want to be the best automatically? Are you competitive or laid back? Finally, are you a Lord of the Rings fan like myself?

26 comments:

  1. I'm so so so very laidback. Type B :-)
    Which isnt always a good thing--but it's me.


    Life long....

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    1. Hehe well that's okay--we're all different :)

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  2. I'm a cross between laid back and wanting to be the best. I won't give up if I quickly realize I'm not the best, but I try hard - for myself - to be the best version of me in anything that I can be.

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    1. I try too hard, that is my problem :/ Eh I am still learning :)

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  3. My husband wishes I was a LOTR fan...we've tried, I can't make it through the firs five minutes of the movie. I wish I could, though. Also, I'm a Type A-er for sure. I love perfection and doing the best I can...but I've learned that it's about progress, not perfection. Best of luck in school this year...

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    1. Hehe the books are a lot better. ;) The movies are good but SO LONG. Thank you :)

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  4. Love this post!!! I need to work on doing the same as you! I'm a little too type A and I need to continue to push with you towards progress and not perfection!

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    1. Why thank you! :) We are in this together my friend!

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  5. This is such a great post!!! I love the quote at the start and the attitude that we cant all be perfect at everything! I am absolutely making "striving for progress not perfection" my motto for today! thanks so much!

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    1. Aww thank you! I hope you have a fantastic day :)

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  6. Remember you are SO young, and SO far ahead of the game already. You're part of an amazing movement , health and fitness is forever--lucky you found it before you really NEEDED it!! xoxo keep doing what you're doing

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  7. DUDE I'm exactly like you. Sometimes my Type A personality causes me to think irrationally and gets in the way of my ultimate goals. I definitely have to keep working on going with the flow and realizing that perfection ain't all it's cracked up to be. Great post!

    PS-- We should totally do a bloggy swap one day. After I get settled in to my apartment, we need to plan one!!! :D

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    1. YES SERIOUSLY LET'S DO IT. We are alike in so many ways! (have you been watching Shark Week!?)

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    2. Sweet! I'll Facebook message you when I get moved in :) And heck YESSSS!!!!! Hasn't it been awesome?!

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    3. Okay! :) AND YES. Sharks are just about the coolest creatures EVAR.

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  8. Progress not perfection is one of my biggest mantras and something I have to focus on so I don't become obsessive too.

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  9. You're way ahead of the game, girlfriend. Although your progress isn't A+ right now, that fact that you recognize the things you want to work on and improve is AWESOME!!! You have purpose. You have direction. You have "want to". And because of that, you will achieve EVERYTHING you set your eyes on to conquer. ((insert epic music of victory here))

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  10. You rock Britt! Keep doing what you're doing! No rush, one day at a time :)

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  11. Oh my gosh!! I'm starting to worry about blogging with the school year coming up, too!
    Pretty sure that I probably won't have time to write everyday, but I've gotta just chill and remember that this is a hobby for me-- not really a job yet or anything. ;)

    Anyway, I absolutely love this post! "The expert in anything was once a beginner" is such an awesome quote! It reminds me of when you see the more popular healthy living blogs these days, and the writers admit that they're embarrassed with their first posts.. It gives me hope that I can get even better someday! :)

    You're gonna be lifting monstrous weights soon, Britt, don't worry! And along the way, you'll be helping a lot of girls (like me) with the basics! Guess who's squatting A LOT deeper now thanks to your advice on incorporating hip abduction exercises? THIS GIRL!! ;)

    Love you, Britt! Keep up the awesome work! :D

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    1. Exactly! And thank you Katie. :) No need for YOU to get better... you're one of the best writers around!!! Seriously! You are too sweet for your own darn good. I'm glad you're including hip work; SO IMPORTANT!!! :) Love you too!

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  12. Oh gosh, back to school already? You'll get back in the groove before you know it. Um, that picture is hilarious.

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